No need to learn fancy tricks!
We just have to simply go within
and discover what is already programmed inside of us!
Yet we know that there’s more!!
We know that sex can be great
but there’s a sense that we are only scratching the surface.
We know how to put the bodies together in order to make babies and have sex.
But that’s just the beginning… Like maybe the first 5%!!!
When we bring our whole beings into the act, it’s like we start colouring in the picture!
Our bodies become incredibly sensitive to our lover’s touch. We fearlessly connect emotionally with each other, blending these powerful energies.
We breathe and move and make sound and mindlessly ride the passion flowing between us. We feel the power in stillness and the energy that flows between us!
We are able to be fully masculine and fully feminine, unite these together and ride the momentum! We effortlessly feel complete ecstasy and bliss flowing through our bodies.
We feel incredibly connected while we make love, and then when we spoon afterwards, and the next morning, and the next afternoon….
In this first session, we will set the framework for your personal exploration through this course and for all future intimate encounters. We will explore the connection between sexual energy and life force and how our lives are transformed when we can embrace that amazing energy and allow it to heal us.
Experience intimate connection with yourself
Reframe sex as a way of connecting
Bathe yourself in charged intimacy
Set up the framework for sex as a Multi-dimensional Experience
“Your skin and mine brush each other. It is as if all of your skin has touched mine. A shiver runs through your whole body, and you enter the heart of touch.”
Relax into touch
Re-sensitize your whole body – including erogenous zones
Explore “Original Touch”
Feel orgasm flow through your whole body
“We have cosmic energy within… but we focus on the covering.”
When we bring meditation into our sexual intimacy, we transform it from a physical procreative act to a transformational, life-affirming, ecstatic experience. Our presence, breath and awareness become magical tools that heal us, regenerate our minds & bodies and give us a glimpse into a much more amazing reality.
Clear old thought patterns
Learn how to bring meditation into sex
Learn how to breathe completely
Explore different states of consciousness through breath techniques
“The beauty of facing life unprepared is tremendous.
Then life has the newness, a youth; then life has a flow and freshness.
Then life has so many surprises.
And when life has so many surprises, boredom never settles in you.”
OSHO
In releasing our training, goals and leaving our bags of tricks at the door, we have an opportunity for endless discovery and infinite possibilities!!
How to bring spontaneity back
Endless exploration beyond the physical
How to release our addiction to time
How to let our bodies make love
We are designed to have erotic, sensual energy flowing through us. We just need to be open and free to this flow. We will explore how to become vulnerable, open, and yet safe and strong.
Releasing fears and negative sexual ideas from society
Erotic energy and what blocks it
How to make love intuitively
Feeling non-judgement and openness in lovemaking
“Male and female principles are not opposites,
locked in an endless struggle for domination,
but complimentaries whose destiny
is to unite in a Tantric dance of energy,
flooding both partners with orgasmic joy”
MARGOT ANAND
Yin & Yang in lovemaking
The wild, free & receptive feminine
The strong, assertive, calm masculine
The momentum when these opposites play together
This week is the really sexy stuff! All the preceding modules create the foundation for bringing in the actual sexual and sensual love-making!! Here’s where we bring it all together and actually unite the bodies!
Tantric vs. friction sex
Great positions for ecstasy and energy alignment
Orgasms as energetic, spiritual experiences
Her inner sweet spots
Entry of the vajra into her secret chamber
We will explore the profound, healing benefits of sacred intercourse. This is where we truly experience what these amazing bodies are capable of – exchanging subtle energies, healing the nervous systems, but more importantly a deep healing of our souls resulting in a new sense of inner peace.
Heal past trauma through intimacy
Experiencing the infinite energy within us
Bring the Divine into lovemaking
Experience Mahamudra: total orgasm with the universe
Katrina teaches between two and four videos for each module. Most of the videos are “conversational” teaching, learning in the same way that we would if we were together – either one-on-one, or in a group workshop. We explore new philosophies, struggles of the feminine, and exercises to do at home and in your day-to-day life.
The beautiful thing about video classes is that it’s like having a conversation together (albeit kinda one-sided)… There is a real spirit and understanding that can be conveyed through listening to and seeing someone speak… It’s one of the wonderful benefits of our international online world!!
Each module has either a meditation or an exercise to take out into our lives. The meditations help us to find that calm centre where we can truly hear our inner guidance.
The exercises help us to immediately apply what we are learning to our lives right now. This is where we truly change and grow... and the lives that we have gently shift into the lives we truly desire.
Each module has homework to complete after you watch the class. This helps to integrate the lesson into your life. It helps to guide you in your own personal journey.
You can do this course at whatever pace works for you. Sometimes it’s nice to do one module per week – like a course you’ve signed up for in person (helps us stay committed and not let the rest of our life creep in). Or maybe you would like to do it at a slower pace, letting certain lessons sink in more… plus, sometimes life just has other plans for us.
This course will take you on an 8-week journey to create and explore the building blocks of a tantric relationship. Each week has instructional videos and exercises for you to do together, and sometimes on your own. You have "lifetime access" to everything in this course, so you can go at a pace that is perfect for you both!
Take a deep breath in Katrina Bos’ presence and feel your heart open and expand immediately. Katrina’s Tantric nature and her own commitment to spiritual awakening are the perfect confluence of skills for bringing her students to the next step on their paths. I highly recommend Katrina Bos as your mentor and guide to deep, authentic, sacred intimacy.
Robyn Vogel, Tantric Intimacy & Sex Coach | Boston, USA
“Katrina is an amazing, beautiful teacher who understands connection, and intimacy in a way that challenges many of the boundaries, and preconceived notions about what those things mean in our modern world. She teaches us how to become more intimate, and connected in each moment to our experience, and the people who touch our lives. I feel like Katrina’s approach to intimacy, and connection is one that would benefit, and resonate for anyone. Hearing Katrina talk about intimacy the first time was like having so many of the things I had glimpsed in my life, and intuitively understood finally being affirmed, and put into words by another person.”
Bo Dumont, Windsor, Canada
I found Katrina’s 'Foundations for Tantric Intimacy' course in 2018 and am so grateful for her teachings. As a gay man, I wasn't sure how Tantric intimacy would "work" between two guys since most of my exposure to sacred sexuality had been through the lens of a heterosexual experience. I now know that it is about working with energetic polarities which are beyond gender, sexual orientation, and physical anatomy. In addition to learning about the Tantric path, how to strengthen my masculine polarity, and tools to foster a more meditative mindset, I was encouraged to dive into the wisdom that was already within me which brought so much contentment and joy to my life. I now find myself savouring the journey into intimacy even more so, both with myself and with lovers.
Tim Damon | Ontario, Canada
I truthfully believe that the Foundations Course transformed my life by opening energy centres that I could never dreamed existed in me! I have learned to explore my life and the magic that this new lens shows. This course allows each student to develop their own unique awareness of themselves and their own world. The tools that are taught like Hollow Bamboo, carry messages of hope, love and understanding! Advice to future students: Do the work, go within, don’t expect your experience to be like anyone else’s and allow your beautiful soul to surface!
Kristen Engel | Ontario, Canada
I like that I can do the course in my own pace. And in my own space. It was everything I thought it would be. It gave me validation on that I have been living a tantric life all along. Without even knowing that this is my way of loving my self, life, and others. So thank you so much Katrina Bos!
Kaja Frøyen | Norway
My passion for teaching tantra comes from a time in my life when I knew that so much more was possible. I knew that deep intimacy was possible and that lovemaking was supposed to be filled with fireworks, deepen the love between us, and truly heal and energize us as people.
And then Tantra entered my life. In my two books "What if You Could Skip the Cancer?" and "Tantric Intimacy", I speak about my first teacher, "
My passion for teaching tantra comes from a time in my life when I knew that so much more was possible. I knew that deep intimacy was possible and that lovemaking was supposed to be filled with fireworks, deepen the love between us, and truly heal and energize us as people. "Jim", who introduced me to a whole new world of possibilities in love and experiencing the world around us. Much later, I began my own journey in tantra filled with study, awakenings and experiences that I am thrilled to share with you.
Because this kind of joy, ecstasy, pleasure and love is within all of us. We just have to do a bit of "unlearning" and exploration of who we truly are to bring it all out into our lives.
No. This course will take you from the very beginning! No need for experience at all. There are teaching videos and exercises that you and your partner can do together to make it real in your relationship.
You can take as long as you like! You have the videos for as long as my websites are here!
I do recommend creating a schedule together to move through the modules at a regular interval like once a week or every two weeks. Otherwise, life tends to take over and one day we remember that we once signed up for a course.
Tantra looks at our relationships through a different lens than many types of counselling. It gets to the core of who we are and teaches us how to connect in deep and nourishing ways. Whether this will work for you depends on where you are in your relationship.
And so, the answer is “maybe yes” and “maybe no.”
If both of you want to grow personally and heal, and you both want to explore a deeper connection, then tantra is a beautiful structure to help you on this journey together.
Tantra gives us a new understanding of love and connection. We can learn how to be safe and trusting with each other. We can learn how to love each other in ways that perhaps we’ve never even seen before.
Introducing the discipline of 100% kindness into your communications and actions will draw you closer in every moment.
When each of you do your personal work, your relationship will change. This will give you a lot of insight as to where each of you have contributed to the distance that you now feel. The intimacy exercises will allow you to connect in a deep and meaningful way that will create an entirely new foundation for your relationship.
When you are able to let go of all expectations and reactions, you can embrace the infinite possibilities that tantra has to offer. Yes, tantra can definitely help.
However, you might already know that the answer is “no.” If you are the only one who wants to fix your relationship, then no, tantra cannot help. We must work within what is real.
However, tantra might help you see your relationship for what it truly is. Maybe you won’t ever have intense passion, but maybe you can have a friendlier and kinder companionship. Tantra redefines love in a way that we can apply it to all depths and kinds of connection. If you are both happy with a friendly, loving companionship, then tantra can help you happily live together.
Moving On When Love Isn’t There
When love is disappearing, when happiness has gone, then it might be time to say thank you and move on. For many of us, this is a radical thought. Historically, we were committed to the institution of marriage. We made a promise and we have to keep it. Within that promise there is no requirement that you are happy or fulfilled or passionate, or that love is even there. Sometimes marriage is a business agreement, and love has little to do with it.
The idea of “till death do you part” is a man-made creation. Staying together for life is not a sign of success. It says nothing about happiness or the fullness of your life. Sometimes it works, and there is great love the whole time. But when it’s not like that, there is no reason to be together.
If this is your situation, you will have to look at what is really happening. Has your relationship simply run its course? Perhaps you can look at each other with love, honour your relationship, and take different roads.
Sometimes, there is love in the beginning, but we don’t know how to love each other. We know how to lust after each other. We know how to live together.
We can have children and pay the bills together, but keeping true love alive takes a different set of skills. This is where we tend to harm the relationship and the love dies.
Instead, we often treat our loved ones – partners and children – worse than friends, colleagues, and even strangers on the street. We “let our hair down” and are “just ourselves” at home because we know that no matter how we act, they won’t go anywhere. We act more like fighting siblings than lovers.
True love is not unkind. It isn’t moody. It doesn’t take out a bad day on another person. It never wants the other person to feel badly. It protects the other person from anything that might upset them.
If you find yourself in a place where you have not been loving toward each other and there are all kinds of hurt feelings and trust issues, but you both want to heal the relationship, then tantra can help. You will have to take it very slow and focus on being kind 100% of the time with each other.
If you are treating your partner with anything except kindness and love, it is likely because you are used to this pattern from your childhood and most relationships in your life. Being impeccable with others will be a new skill to develop. It will take thoughtful discipline in the beginning. But it’s definitely worth it.
Yes. Definitely. We often imagine it only applies to the heterosexual world, since that has been the dominant culture for a long time. Regardless of orientation, tantra is first a way of being. It is about integrating our spiritual and physical lives. This is true for all genders and orientations.
Our tantric journey shifts our philosophy so we can heal all of the parts of us we have hidden away. Most people in the LGBTQ community have been forced to hide a lot of who they are and still have to in many cultures. This process of healing is fundamentally important.
How we create loving connection is about how souls connect. Our souls have no gender. We just love. We can have full body orgasms through complete presence and touch. We can be fully clothed, doing nothing sexual at all. What matters is that when we are complete, infinite possibilities can happen.
Truthfully, all couples need this foundation within each person, regardless of orientation.
There is a lot of discussion about the interaction of the masculine and feminine in tantra, which can seem heterosexist. This refers to the masculine and feminine balance within each of us. We all interact in masculine and feminine ways with each other, regardless of orientation. This isn’t about sex.
It’s about the natural magnetism between the two aspects of each of us and how we interact with each other.
It is true that there is much more information and focus on heterosexuality in tantra mostly because historically, we have not been able to discuss same-sex couples, let alone the people who make up the LGBTQ community today.
We live in a time where we can not only talk openly about how everyone loves and connects with each other, but we can study the wisdom of tantra and learn (perhaps for the first time) how this ancient wisdom applies to everyone of all genders and orientations.
The world is ready for it now.
This course will take you on an 8-week journey to create and explore the building blocks of a tantric relationship. Each week has instructional videos and exercises for you to do together, and sometimes on your own. You have "lifetime access" to everything in this course, so you can go at a pace that is perfect for you both!
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